They know who they are and why their marriage failed and are looking for pure companionship.They probably won’t be in “awe” of you and hang on your every word.We all, at some time or another experience this kind of pain.
For example, negative thinking about oneself or, harsh judgments from others and a negative view of the world and experiences will cause us to experience “dirty pain.”Both clean and dirty pain are experienced during a divorce.
Which is one reason the pain of divorce is hard to move past.
Once I was passed all the knee buckling pain and had come to the decision to finish my degree and become a Divorce Coach researching and understanding the pain caused by divorce was first on my list of things to understand so I could hopefully help other women move forward with their lives a hell of a lot faster than I did.
To understand the emotional pain experienced during a divorce, it might help to discuss the two types of emotional pain, according to some psychologists.
We have all heard about how easy it is for a man to start dating in his fifties and how there are plenty of women to choose from. Early 30’s and never been married – these women must have “daddy issues”.
Their desire to be with men 15-20 years their senior means they are looking for someone to take care of them both financially and personally.
They won’t be interested in pumping your ego or making you feel young.
Rather they will be someone who will have realistic expectations of you and be accepting of who you are at this time of your life.
Be cautious men, these women are looking for you to do it all over again and that means house and children.
Sure it will start with great sex and they will make you feel “alive” and young but proceed with caution.
But, it was something I had to do, to get to where I am today.