We give away our exclusivity before a man gives us the commitment we want.
You get to CHOOSE if he is the right man for you, and have the time to find out who he is and how he will treat you.THE RIGHT WAY TO TAKE THINGS SLOWLY Everyone tells you to “take things slow,” but how on Earth are you supposed to do that when you’re head over heels for someone? There’s no point in trying to slow things down with a man when he’s the only one you’re dating. But if you keep dating other men, you are instantly able to take it slowly.Instead, keep your options open to keep your sanity and remind him that you are a prize to be won.When you stop over-investing too quickly, you’ll start getting the kind of affection and attention you crave.Here’s why: NO MORE NEEDY VIBE THAT PUSHES MEN AWAY When you have all your hopes and dreams wrapped up in any one guy, it’s natural to fear losing him…and losing you.
You become obsessed with every phone call, jump when he says jump, and change from the attractive, interesting woman who intrigued him into someone needy and clingy he feels pressured to check in with.Once we meet a man we really like, we women tend to dive right in.We want to give our hearts, mind and very soul to a man, and meld together into a perfect relationship.You want to spend time with your new partner, and are excited to learn about her habits and interests.It's natural to want to jump into exploring all aspects of your relationship.But I’m here to tell you that if you throw out the idea of dating one man at a time, you have a much better chance of winding up with your checklist…and more. Open yourself up to getting to know as many men as you can and, when one shows up that you really connect with, don’t make the mistake of shutting down other options right away. I’m willing to bet it will get you faster to your “one” than you ever imagined.