There are a lot of beautiful women, there are opportunities, but I think at the same time, if you find the right person, I believe in monogamy, I believe in when you meet somebody who is right it will be right and you will stay there." Indeed, less than a month after he and Swift split, a source told ) in late January 2012 that all the couple's on-again-off-again drama really damaged Swift. He totally screwed with her mind," the source said, adding, "She doesn't know how to meet anybody new." She later told ), "I think once a relationship is done it's done, you can't do that back and forth thing — it's the most exhausting process.
I think you have to have somebody that's dependable, that isn't going to change their mind every five seconds." Swift admitted to that her collaboration with Snow Patrol frontman Gary Lightbody, "The Last Time," was inspired by an intense on-again-off-again romance that occurred around the time she was with Gyllenhaal.
reports that the pair have been dating in secret for months (seems about right) and that Taylor is "besotted" with him.
They add that she's been spending lots of time in London with him, using wigs, scarves and hats as a disguise."Taylor and Joe are the real deal, this is a very serious relationship," a source tells the newspaper. Taylor has flown in via private jets and her security has made it a military-like mission to prevent her from being seen."As well as Taylor's "Taylor and Joe have really tried to be on lockdown and have spent most of their time together in private locations where they could get to know each other without the pressure of a public relationship and people making judgement calls," a source tells the outlet.
I can't do that." Another part of why Swift and Gyllenhaal may have had trouble with alone time? She explained, "If a dude is threatened by the fact that I need security, if they make me feel like I am some sort of princessy diva — that's a bad sign.
I don't have security to make myself look cool, or like I have an entourage.
He wants to keep his private life private, and that's hard to do dating Taylor." She hinted to that this was part of the catalyst for one of her breakups, venting, "Also, I can't deal with someone who's obsessed with privacy.
People kind of care if there are two famous people dating. If you care about privacy to the point where we need to dig a tunnel under this restaurant so that we can leave?The only way that I can feel better about myself — pull myself out of that awful pain of losing someone — is writing songs about it to get some sort of clarity." A source revealed to that part of why Swift was so devastated by the split is because she gave Gyllenhaal her virginity."[Swift] was saving herself for marriage," the source said, adding that Gyllenhaal eventually talked her into going all the way.) including Lorde, Cara Delevingne, Dakota Johnson and Martha Hunt attend a secret Kings of Leon concert in New York City.It's widely reported that Joe was also there and Coincidence orrrrr?She wasn't used to all the head games and the lies, but now she's way less naive." ) in July 2015, Gyllenhaal admitted that he'd been in love twice in his life (leading most to believe it was with Kirsten Dunst and Reese Witherspoon, each of whom he dated for about two years).