they hardly make her come across as having “class,” if she talks too much and constantly draws attention to her persona.Being professional, educated, and having a great sense of humor are very attractive qualities in a woman.
The formal definition of being “classy” also doesn’t add much to understanding what class means in the context of dating and attraction.For instance, being a sharp dresser, clean, and not using profanities are certainly qualities that flatter to a woman, but…Subtlety implies a degree of moderation, lack of flamboyance, lack of impulse to attract attention, and generally not trying too hard.A subtle woman has style but she doesn’t look like a designer model.It might be something as small and seemingly insignificant as a laughter of an actress that you would notice in a woman that strikes you as so much softer, feminine and attractive than the one you overheard the other night at a bar from a woman, whose entire body was covered with tattoos and piercings.
However, when it comes to elegance and class, there is no such thing as small and insignificant. being classy is a sum of many, many elements of one’s personality, behavior, and actions, some of which are more obvious than others, but all of which are essential for the “total package” to be considered elegant and classy.
A woman who has true class and strong sense of self does not need to run around and tell everyone how smart and successful she is, whether it’s in “real” life, or on Facebook, Linked In, Ok Cupid or anywhere else.
This urge to validate yourself through bragging is a clear sign of insecurity and of in both men and women.
This doesn’t mean that you have to look boring or that you always have to blend in, but it does mean that you should not look like someone who is dying for attention for those who are around her at any cost.
So many women (and men of course) out there are trying so hart to stand our and be different in all the wrong ways.
A very small minority of women who don’t have a lot of class are able to develop that quality and become truly classy.