But what is wrong is when manipulation, lying, abuse, sexual sins, and ridicule is included in the relationship.Just think, if all of this relationship drama was ongoing in the book of Genesis with the first couple, Adam and Eve would have been fighting one another, ignoring God, and turning their future offspring against one another!
Sometimes the love bug hits you, and you can’t help pining after someone older or younger than you.
Age-gap romances have actually become more common nowadays thanks to online dating.
During the post–breakup relationship analysis, my good friend and then–roommate told me she always imagined me with someone 15 years older than me because I'm such a "mature and serious person." I'm not sure I could date someone that much older than me.
I'd feel like I have a flashing neon sign over my head that said "father issues."However, I have two friends in good marriages who are both eight years older than their respective husbands.
Sometimes, as believers, we are very quick to assume that someone we are dating is "the one" and "chosen by God," because they simply appear to act like what we think a believer should be.
We start trying to make a square peg fit in a round hole.But I think that had more to do with the fact we were both in our 20s at the time.Most of us pre–26ish don't realize how little we know about ourselves and life in general, and maybe that's why I felt more like he wanted a mom than a girlfriend.It's like God taking us by the hand and pointing out our faults, "See what you done, now look what I am going to do.I know that you made a mistake, but I can't let you just walk away, there are some things I need to teach you about yourself, the other person and how this all relates to my perfect will." So if you believe in a mighty God and you know that you may have made some mistakes with someone or you are seeking God about the person you are currently with, may I direct you to the original plan, what does God want to do in you and through you?Then again, who knows what they said to one another after they were expelled from the garden?